Stillness Is The Key

By
Ryan Holiday
Jul 21, 2023
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Quick Background

Drawing on a wide range of history's greatest thinkers, Holiday shows us how Stillness is the key to the self-mastery, discipline and focus necessary to succeed in this competitive, noisy world - and how we can cultivate it in our own lives today.

(This was our favorite Ryan Holiday book yet!)

You should read this book if...

  • You're into ancient philosophy, history, sports
  • You feel overwhelmed about your life
  • You're a driven but unhappy workaholic

3 Big Ideas

1) If you want more breakthroughs, create more silence.

"'Thought will not work except in silence,' Thomas Carlyle said.

If we want to think better, we need to seize these moments of quiet.

If we want more revelations—more insights or breakthroughs or new, big ideas—we have to create more room for them."

2) Cultivate a poet's eye to find the beauty in everything.

"We’re not always on the farm or at the beach or gazing out over sweeping canyon views.

Which is why the philosopher must cultivate the poet’s eye—the ability to see beauty everywhere, even in the banal or the terrible.

The hot steam wafting from the vents on a New York City morning.

The sound of a pen signing a contract, binding two parties together.

A floor filled with a child’s toys, arranged in the chaos of exhausted enjoyment.

Are you starting to see how this works?"

3) Achieving won't make you happy - only gratitude will.

"The writers Kurt Vonnegut and Joseph Heller were once at a party in a fancy neighborhood outside New York City.

Standing in the palatial second home of some boring billionaire, Vonnegut began to needle his friend.

“Joe,” he said, “how does it feel that our host only yesterday may have made more money than your novel has earned in its entire history?”

“I’ve got something he can never have,” Heller replied.

“And what on earth could that be?” Vonnegut asked.

“The knowledge that I’ve got enough.”

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